As I received so many brilliant questions for my Q&A I’ve had to split them into two parts, if you would like to read part one click Here. I’ve got a lot to get through so let’s get going!
As you get older do you give less fucks? I mean feeling sexy no matter what size you are. Responding to rude people. Being completely honest with people. (Sorry for the cursing, I have a potty mouth)
I adore this question as my answer is something I never thought possible, HELL YES I give less fucks. I can only speak for myself but as I’ve gotten older I care less and less what people think. I’ve never been bigger but I’ve never felt sexier. (No it’s not a fat fetish it’s all about self acceptance) When people are rude I don’t explode like I used to, I can walk away literally laughing at how stupid people can be. I’m honest with people but I know how to word it better and when to pick the right moment. I also feel less obligated to bite at the bull shit (I wrote about that Here) and let other people’s crap just roll over me. I have the patiences of a saint now and things that used to send me into fight mode don’t even touch the sides. It’s amazing!
What do you value most about yourself?
I’ve been thinking about this for days, and I think I have found my answers. My determination I think it’s pretty powerful, when I really want something I don’t stop until I get it. Nothing will stop me. I also value my patience and understanding with people. The last thing I value (as I’m so god damn fabulous) is my sense of humour!
If you could change one thing about your life, as it is now, what would it be, and why?
This is another question I’ve put a lot of thought into. Although we have our ups and downs overall I love my life and feel really blessed for everything I have. But there’s lots of things I want out of life too, we’ve made future plans but nothing can happen until the debt is paid off. Money is so tight it my biggest upset trigger right now. So if I could change anything right now it wouldn’t be my weight, or my bipolar, it would be our money problems. I feel like I’m waiting for a new chapter in our lives to start, I just wish it could be now.
Rouge also asked:
When it comes to cream teas, do you put the jam or cream on first?
Beautifully British question!!! I’ll do one half with jam on the top and one half with cream on the top, best of both worlds.
I’m late to the party on this one, but if you could be a “fly on the wall” at any event or moment, past or future what would you choose?
I would 100% say I would LOVE to have been a fly on the wall for the birth of my kids! I’ve had two children but I’ve never actually seen anyone else in labour, I would love to see the outsiders perspective. Because the pain was crazy intense I had zero idea what was going on lol.
I have missed a few questions off as they’ll be getting their own dedicated blog post. This was so much fun I’ll be doing a Q&A again in the future and I challenge you lovely bloggers out there to do one too!
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