So after over 10 years and two children later, my boyfriend asked me if I would like to get engaged. The words I have been waiting to hear, so badly, for the longest time. He also asked if I would like to get married when all our debt is paid off. More words I have so badly wanted to hear.
Money has been in big factor as to why this haven’t happened yet, but at the same time I believe if there’s a will there’s a way. He’s knows this has meant a lot to me but I have tried my hardest not to nag him. The more I nagged the further away the true meaning of it all went.
I didn’t want him to propose because I bagered the crap out of him or because he felt like he had to. I wanted him to propose because he wanted to.
Last night he asked my dad if he could marry me. My dad said yes.
I know he’s not what my parents had pictured for me but I’m a grown up, it’s my choice and I love the life we have together, I want nothing more than to marry him. I was so happy my dad said yes, I didn’t think he would say no but I was still nervous.
I think we’re going to look at rings this weekend, I’m trying not to get too excited as I don’t think he’s planning on buying one as soon as I’m hoping he is. Again money is a factor.
I just hope he doesn’t keep me waiting forever. Now this has been dangled in front of me it’s all I’m thinking about! It’s one stop closer to having the same last name as my children. That’s so exciting to me. But I also know he wouldn’t of asked my dad last night if it was a million years away.
This was just my daily rambles about my good news!
I’d love to hear in the comments below about anything you feel like sharing about your day.
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Congratulations! So happy for you!
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Aw thank u so much!! 😊 xxx
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These are great news. Am so happy for you! Congratulations! “he who finds a wife finds a good thing and favor from the Lord”.
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Thank you so much that’s lovely! Xxx
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That’s fantastic news.! 😀 Congratulations to you both.
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Thank you so much 😊 lets hope he proposes soon I’m ready to burst 😂 xxx
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CONGRATULATIONS. So so so happy for you! I hope you blog all the wedding planning details.
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Aw thank u so much Hun!!!! Haha yes I will be ranting and raving the whole way don’t u worry 😂 xxx
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I am so happy for you! Congrats. My husband took several years to ask me to so I can relate to your joy. My ring is small but it represents the precious memory that he spent every thing he had at that moment and I wouldn’t trade it in for the world. It’s also so cool that he asked your dad for your hand, it may be old fashioned but I think it means that he is very serious about his commitment to spending the rest of your lives together. Again I couldn’t be more happy for you.
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It’s been a long time coming I’m so happy! That’s such a lovely sentiment bout ur ring. Thank u I was pleased he asked my dad too it’s a big sign of respect. Ur so sweet thank u ❤️❤️ xxx
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Congratulations! Get ready for the ride of your life!
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Haha thank u! Xxx
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Congratulations!! Try to enjoy this stage instead of wishing too far away. Does that make sense? So happy for you and looking forward to reading all about it!
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My friend said exactly the same thing to me today!! Thank u so much I can’t wait to write about it all! Xxx
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Awwwooooo whoooooooo! Congratulations! I’m off dress shopping, kids aren’t invited to the wedding right? 😀
Very lovely thing to read this morning 😊 congrats to you both x
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Omg I loved this comment!!!!! 😂😂😂 thank u so much!! Don’t forget the hat, you’ll need a hat darling!! Is it morning where u r?! Xxx
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But I look stupid in a hat! 🤠 I can do you a nice fascinator?
No, I read it this morning but didn’t have time to comment 😊 right now it’s 20:32 and I’m naked! In the bath! I’m bath blogging!
Iv got a toddler, I need to multitask 😂
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Haha yes as long as it’s huge!! Yeah thought u were in the U.K. too I got confused 🙈🙈 bath blogging sounds awesome! I quite often ‘sit in the car waiting for the bell to go to grab the kids from school Blog!’ And ‘cooking dinner blogging’ You will become the boss of multi tasking lol xxx
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Oh, wonderful! Congratulations! I proposed to my husband, ring and all, but I always kind of wanted him to propose to me. But, women traditionally propose in my family, so I did. 🙂 We had a very cheap wedding, less than $1000 all told, and it was a potluck afterwards so everyone brought food instead of gifts.
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Oh wow that’s so cool! U should ask him to propose to u on a special anniversary 😊 that’s a great wedding idea bet that was really fun xxx
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Congratulations! Thanks for sharing and I’m surprised you’re blogging about it instead of going out to celebrate!!
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Haha thank u! Don’t u worry we celebrated in our own way 😜 he’s just got to ask me now!!! Xxxx
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Congratulations 🙂
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Thank u! Xxx
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Congratulations! I’m very happy for you!
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Thank u!!! 😊 xx
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That’s so sweet that he asked your dad. Congratulations!! LOL at the ring, yeah patience is not my virtue either. But it will come and it will be beautiful :):)
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Thank u!! Haha yeah I’m trying not to obsessed but it’s a bit tricky 😂😂 xxxx
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I’d give you some tips on how to do that but I’m the worst on patience and obsessing lol. I threw the best I had for you on the previous comment 😉
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Haha love it 😂😂 thank u! Xxx
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😉
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Congrats girlie
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Thank u 😘😘 xx
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It sounds like you have both shared hard times together and come through them. It will probably be a lot easier now the children are a bit more self sufficient and your debt worries are receding. Have a lovely engagement and marriage. Good Dad!
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Thank you so much!!! We really have, I’m so happy things are starting to look up it’s been a long road xxxx
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This is so wonderful to hear! 😀 Such an exciting time. I don’t blame you for expecting it after two children! Have you looked into rings yet? Have you been daydreaming about wedding plans? SO EXCITING! 😀 😀
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Aw thank u so much!!! Yes we spent four hours looking at rings last weekend it was amazing! We’re going to see a local jeweller to see what he can do too xxx I’m crazy happy about it!!
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I’m new to your blog, but I wanted to say congratulations. Wishing you guys all the continued happiness. And yes, blog the wedding prep! xox
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Heya Lorna! Thank you so much that’s so kind of you 😃 xxx
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